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I guess the ask is another one: Why use colthes at home? We, me and my nudit are naturists and being nude is "natural". The kids songle up "au naturel" is normal, they won't have the curiosity about nudity, mainly about the opposite gender. They will growing up without traumas, with strong self-confidence. Is not wrong with nudity from the nudit or papa or kids in any age, same in the teenager. The fear is in the mind of people. Try live more natural, I guess that you will enjoy. Go at least once fther a live to a nude beach or nude resort and you will see what I'm telling. Everybody that live a social nudity once, don't go back anymore, the mind opened forever and you see the life from different way, pretty better.
I never had any such issues when I was growing up. Both my parents were naturists too. I felt I could do what every kid does at home without the need to wear clothes. Never crossed my mind to think that my parents were stepping out of line by being nude in front of me. Once I hit the awkward teenage girl years I started becoming less comfortable with my own body and walking around naked, but my parents still would from time to time getting out the shower, getting dressed etc. My husband and his ex wife also practiced the same thing with their son and he would walk around naked too. When I was old enough to feel I needed space I just started shutting the door, I never remember feeling uncomfortable, just that Ok now I was ready for my body and other peoples to be private.
If your daughters father is on the scene, I would talk to him about how he'd like this handled, assuming you have a relationship you can do that, just to save any awkward conversations later or if he's the kind to try and make trouble you might want to be extra careful and above board. So your relationship the bio dad should play a part in any decisions.
I don't no my no were even all that pan-progressive or anything between that. We also had a north. The 7yo has met to do this more in the responsible few jesus.
Sibgle gradually stopped happening as my siblings and I got older. I would say that this sort of thing was definitely not happening anymore by the time I was in grade school. Certainly by the time I was 10 I was not seeing either parent naked anymore. I didn't have a stepfather at that age, so I can't weigh in on that.
But I agree with the general idea that your daughter should be able to dress and ma herself by five. I'm also guessing she should be old enough to go into a bathroom stall by herself. I would think the situation with a stepfather could be a little different though, depending on how much the child has accepted that person as her own father as opposed to as her mother's husband only. I agree with this and am completely confused why you would not understand how to remain covered up in common areas. I've either had family members or several roommates living in a sungle with me at every point in my life and I never saw any of them naked.
And I go to nude beaches and clothing optional wm, none of this is prudishness eith body shame. A very easily avoidable. That said, I have friends who grew up with no concern about bathroom doors being closed, so if everyone is in agreement that seeing each other naked is ok, that's fine too. If you have a household with only one bathroom, it's not inconceivable that locking fathee bathroom door when you have a young child with limited bladder control would be a bad idea. My eldest daughter of three daughters, no sknwhen she was about 4, walked in to the bathroom when her father was there. Looked for a moment, remarked "Oh, I'd always thought you peed through your hand" and carried on, picked up what she wanted from the bathroom and left.
My parents split when I was 4, but I was pretty self-sufficient using the restroom and changing rooms without them by then anyway, so I didn't need an adult escort. And my father lived in places with only one bathroom. I managed to wait my turn and bathe myself with limited through the closed door supervision by then. I think it depends on your family and your daughter's abilities. It can be avoided, if desired. What does her father say? Growing up I spent a lot of time with both of them including frequent swimming. Never saw either one naked. Here's the thing as I see it. If there's NO nudity precedent in this household, I find it hard to think of a NEED for seeing one's stepfather naked or even in underwear.
I love my stepfather like he was my biological father. At 35, I can say that not only did he do a better job in that role when I was a kid, but he's also taken the whole darn fathering thing completely over from my actual father. Still, he is NOT my father, and that goes double for every Oedipal matter, of which I could make a list. Would you let your daughter see other adult male relatives naked? Does she frequently ever? What about her stepfather's brother, that uncle, if he exists? If this is a pro-nudity family or milieu, all this changes. With a stepfather, I say err on the conservative side, for many obvious reasons that have nothing to do with, God forbid, child abuse.
You don't want her to wake up at age 7 and think, Geez, it's bad enough to see Dad naked, but Stepdad too, give me a break. I think the assumption that children will "set their own boundaries," particularly in a stepfamily situation, is not totally valid. It was never a big deal. To this day, my father would not think twice about stepping out the shower or changing his clothes in front of me. My mom probably stopped being naked around me around puberty. I'm talking about context-appropriate nudity like changing clothes or showering. My daughter is 4. She still bathes with my wife and I regularly and will sometimes watch us change clothes or use the toilet.
Sometimes she'll ask questions about private parts and we'll answer them.
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That said, I never saw my stepparents naked, but they didn't enter my life until I was 10 years old. Personally, I think it's healthy for kids to see adult bodies. But there's really no right or wrong, just whatever you're comfortable with. My stepfather came around when I was seven and has never seen me naked--oh, wait, once when I was a teenager--that was embarrassing! My father stopped seeing me in the bathtub, etc. I think between ages eight and nine it wouldn't have been a big deal if he saw me topless or something. By age ten he certainly didn't see me naked.
We were a conservative family in this regard, but again, with a stepfather, I say err on the side of caution. What she does with her biological dad does NOT have to be duplicated exactly with her stepdad. Different people, different relationships! At five, he still burst in on me any time I was on the toilet and wanted to narrate details of his potty habits to me. He's Special and I mean that seriously, he has a long list of issues. He hit puberty, discovered the bathroom door has a damn lock and I have not seen his privates since and he has not seen mine -- his choice. I do not think I am a nudist single father with a son is a big deal. I can remember being four or five and having long conversations with other family members who were on the toilet, which is why I handled my son the way I did.
Kids too young to think private parts are sexual tend to not care. If dad genuinely respects the child's boundaries, it should not be a big deal. When she gets all "Daaad!!! I think it's fine and better than the alternative of sending the 5yo into a room full of strangers to peel off her own wet I am a nudist single father with a son not a minor challenge when it's a one-piece style! As a child in that kind of situation, we always changed at home before the pool and then drove back home in wet suits. This isn't very practical.
This is exactly why family locker rooms and family restrooms exist today- to make this exact situation easier on everyone involved. Questioning people for their use of these facilities or nitpicking how they're being used is wrong. Home is different in that it's both easier to avoid being seen, and also there are plenty of opportunities to be seen accidentally. I know that I've seen my parents naked, but it was extremely rare and accidental at least after the age where I have any memory of it. As for myself, adolescent embarrassment made me a Houdini of locker-room changing; I can get into and out of anything without anyone seeing more than the faintest whisper of midriff.
If I'm lucky enough to parent someday, I would be sorry if my children had the same prudish attitude as I do about it. I never saw another member of my immediate family of origin naked, ever. And we didn't take any great pains about it; hanging around naked where other people were likely to see you just wasn't something we did. I'm sure other families are different and manage to be just fine. As soon as someone isn't comfortable it isn't ok anymore. I grew up in a very free and easy household and the in and out of the bathroom thing you write about went on with both of my parents until my sister and I decided we needed privacy - probably when we were around 9 or so.
This is something I appreciated about my upbringing ie naked isn't something to be ashamed of and is not inherently sexual and I've tried to emulate it. I do understand that others do not hold the same attitude and that this is very personal. In our house with our 5yo old girl and 7yo boy casual nudity is common. The grown ups two moms usually close the bathroom doors when they are inside, but we don't lock the door unless we truly need privacy. If a kid needs to pee while one of us is in the shower they come in and do so and it is no big deal as long as they don't flush.
We have terrible water pressure and flushing while mum is in the shower is verboten. If one of the children wants to lock the door or ask for privacy while they are inside they are welcome to do so and everyone respects this. The 7yo has started to do this more in the past few months. We all get dressed with doors wide open. Someone up thread mentioned this, and for me it has been very important to teach them about when and where it is OK for others to touch them and when and where it is appropriate for them to go to town on their own genitals. At the pool we use the family bathroom and try to grab a change room together.
The 7yo is getting to the age where we get dirty looks bringing him into a women's bathroom but depending on the place I'm not always comfortable sending him into a men's room on his own. For those saying the 5yo is old enough to do everything on her own, my 5yo can certainly bathe and clothe herself, but she likes having someone help her wash her back and I like being there to check on her in the bath and help her out of the slippery tub. I wouldn't send her into a change room at the pool by herself, no way. He still wants me to scrub his back too, most of the time.
I'll enjoy it while it lasts. He can help her get dressed, and find a safe place for her to sit while he changes in the men's locker room. When you are old enough to change clothes by yourself, you will use the locker room for women. I have a single memory of seeing my mom use the bathroom as a toddler and asking her a question about her anatomy and her being very uncomfortable; that was probably the last time it happened - it's extremely, easily possible to not see your parents naked. I really don't understand how anyone can think it would be difficult with kids over toddler-age. My children see me mom naked, but they are both under three; I don't intend to keep on doing it forever.
And there is no way in hell I personally will have any future guys I date or marry walkin' round naked in front of my children. I saw my mom naked a lot as a child but not since I hit high school. Both of my parents saw me naked as a child but not really since I hit high school. Nowadays my mom sometimes sees me in underwear, and I her, but the least Dad and I see each other in is a bathing suit. It is totally possible to live in the same house and not see each other naked. As you can tell from my experience, we are not really a naked family. I don't think it's weird to be naked around your kids though.